It can take quite a lot of prodding, investigating, and using your killer instincts to bring out the porn star in your partner in bed. Women may be shy at times and hesitant to tell you what they like, but trust that they love sex and a lustful encounter as much as you do. And yes, she enjoys lingerie shopping, too.
So how can you best unleash her inner sex kitten? Here are tricks that may come in handy:
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Empower your lady, trusting her to do something wild when the situation calls for it. Give her a little more push by describing your fantasies to her – it would give her a newfound confidence in the ideas you’re entrusting her in thinking she is capable of delivering.
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Plan an emergency exit in case things escalate and she gets a bit freaky about things. Respect her if she tells you to stop. Just be cool about it and keep things low to make it easier to try to bring out her wild side again.
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Compliment her. If you find her hot, do tell her and verbalize it. Praise her for all the wonderful things that she is and how she makes you feel, because let’s face it: there’s nothing like utmost confidence to excite her and lead her to act like she’s never done before.
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Make her dreams come true. This doesn’t entail completing her bucket list or giving her the moon and the stars. Pay attention to the little details: if she jokes about parking-lot sex, find a way to give it to her. If she wants to role-play in the bedroom, grant her request. It will help her loosen up, trust you more, and conquer her biggest fears in lovemaking.
- Take your time. Take baby steps to help her make her grand debut in lovemaking. For instance, try sexy variations on usual positions you’re using before you go with the crazy bunch. Master making love inside the house before going more public.
It will greatly help to be the best version of yourself for when the times she goes wild – smell and be clean, be a gentleman and rough guy in equal helpings, and be strong, firm, and long down there!