The Million Dollar Question: How to Make Sex More Exciting

May 22, 2015

How do you make sex sexier? There could be a thousand and one answers to this question, but this could be largely individual and personal in nature. What works for you may not be the best aphrodisiac and stamina improver in another man, and what excites you may be blah and commonplace for another. That’s perfectly fine, because in the final instance your and your partner’s ultimate pleasure matters.

So, how do you then add more excitement into the lovemaking? Here are some tips from experts:

The Million Dollar Question: How to Make Sex More Exciting

  1. Make that mind and body connection. Be completely in tune with your body, such as when the rush you feel immediately after completing a marathon. Maintain confidence and help your woman have a positive self-image, where you both feel good about your skin and what you can bring to the table. If this happens, then there’s no reason to not be all-out sensual.

  2. Introduce a couple of thrills. Don’t get lazy in bed – get to work and work a few thrills! Your energy and enthusiasm should lead you to new stimulating things, such as a more adventurous foreplay. You may also do this non-sexually, such as doing a heart-pounding activity such as bungee jumping or rock climbing. You can easily replicate the exhilaration in sex.

  3. Do the deed outside the house. It may be best to once in a while get away from it – the all-too familiar house, reminders of your work, and even the small kids. Go on a romantic dinner, pick a libido-enhancing dish, and rent a holiday house or a hotel room. A new environment can do wonders for the lovemaking!

  4. Take turns. Make it a giver and receiver game where you two decide on how much time to do whatever act or play is up. Research shows, too, that pleasing your partner can turn you even more. How about that perk?

  5. Be bold. Just go for it – take the reins and introduce the novelty you’ve always wanted. Assert what you want and let her speak her mind, too. When changing positions, though, slow down and kiss her just so the shift is not too abrupt.

What tip are you taking to heart tonight during your next lay?