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My Account If you want to have more sex and less drama, you have to pay careful attention to certain habits you have in the sack. Make that favorable rediscovery of what works, and ditch the ones that put the excitement and pleasure down the drain. Here are surefire ways to breathe new life into your sex life – straight from our sex and romance experts.
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Doing the deed at the same time and place. There’s no law saying sex should only be inside the bedroom, or at 10 PM sharp. Take the heat outside where it’s safe (and legal), for instance in your garage or kitchen. Seduce your lady love in the backseat of your care and fulfill your mutual fantasies there. Do not fall prey to the predictability of sex.
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Boring foreplay. Think of foreplay as a fresh, new exercise routine each time. It should be exhilarating and raise adrenaline and her dopamine levels to relieve any anxiety she’s feeling. It should be the routine kissing and caressing of pleasure-sensitive body parts, but instead a showcase of your passion and pre-penetration skills. She should go wild, not doze off.
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One-person show. Once you tie her hands, it should be up to her now to figure out how to participate in the role-playing and remove your shirt, cuff links, and pants. Don’t monopolize the rough play; let it highlight her ingenuity as well! It will be a welcome extension of your foreplay.
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Rushing through sex. There’s a finish line, sure, but you’re not timed or pressure by competition with another couple. So take your time exploring her and her erogenous zones. Think of sex as a discovery instead of a destination you need to reach.
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Same old PDA. Instead of falling into the trap of habitual hand-holding, step up your game when in public. She will remember it when it’s time for the main event in bed.
- Post-coital TV or sleep. Introduce another activity once a sexual round has been concluded. Read to her with a deep voice, or have some sexy talk. Who knows – it might even set the stage for another steamy encounter sooner than you expect.
